Naomi Osaka: Who do people say that I am?
July 25, 2021
For Beloved Community and Mountain Community Mennonite Churches
©Vernon K. Rempel, 2021
Bible reading:
Mark 8:27-30
Jesus went on with his disciples to the villages of Caesarea Philippi; and on the way he asked his disciples, ‘Who do people say that I am?’ And they answered him, ‘John the Baptist; and others, Elijah; and still others, one of the prophets.’ He asked them, ‘But who do you say that I am?’ Peter answered him, ‘You are the Messiah.’ And he sternly ordered them not to tell anyone about him.
Jesus does not give too much away
Jesus does not like to give too much away
about his personal identity.
He’s always using the mysterious phrase
“The son of man” in reference to himself,
and does not like any titles of higher honor.
In this passage, Peter tries out “Messiah”
and gets a stern warning not to
spread that around.
Jesus is not interested in being worshiped
by the adoring crowds or being
put up on a pedestal,
although that is exactly what
the Christian movement
later proceeded to do.
Much more than this, Jesus wants people
to understand God’s love and God’s peace,
and, I think, to understand
the way Jesus walks around.
It is “follow me” much more than “admire me.”
Follow me among all God’s people:
lepers, women at wells, heartbroken centurions.
In fact, let’s just be in community
with everyone we can.
Let’s not get too excited about
all this Messiah stuff.
But then of course he turns around
and teaches beautifully or people
get healed and so it is tempting
to put him back on the pedestal.
Naomi Osaka does not give too much away
Naomi Osaka does not like to give away
too much either. She is not a woman of
many words, although she answers
the many interview questions
with good, thoughtful answers.
She doesn’t give any of the sports cliche’s like:
I just get out there to give 110%.
It’s not about winning but just playing the game.
(She knows it’s about winning, for her.)
And she can’t say “there’s no “I” in team,
because it’s tennis!
She is elegant with her words.
But she doesn’t give too much away.
And she has a lovely smile.
But she doesn’t give that away
too often either.
She is a contained young woman, I think,
finding her way.
She learned some of this from her mother:
Naomi: Do you think that by age 22 I would have done more…
Mom: Shakes her head
Naomi: …or is this acceptable?
Mom: More than acceptable.
Her mother then speaks some responses in Japanese
and does make a nice little speech on the
occasion of Naomi’s birthday.
But she also is self-contained.
And her father makes a nice little speech.
Does Naomi have the twinkle in her eyes
from her father?
You can tell she’s taken in
joy and determination
from her parents.
She does not refuse to answer questions
in this documentary
(as she has more recently).
But she does not waste words.
But then she turns around
and and beats the amazing Serena Williams
to win the 2018 U.S. Open.
So people want her words.
But she will not lord it over others.
She might have the “champion mentality.”
But she does not have the messiah mentality.
When she beats the 15-year-old Coco Gauff
in the 2019 U.S. Open, she invites
her to share in the post-game interview.
It is tearful, sweet, and generously graceful.
There’s more grace than messiah complex there.
She said she cared about how Gauff
felt leaving the court. That’s just kind.
Who is Naomi Osaka?
She is graceful and a winner.
But then she gets bumped
from the 2019 U.S. Open
by Belinda Bencic.
Afterwards, she goes on Ellen Degeneres’ show
and answers Ellen’s first question
with one word: “yes.”
She does like to give too much away.
But who is this self-contained young woman?
She is a world-class tennis player
but like everyone else,
she has to figure out what she’s
showing up for in this world.
How does she plan to enter the world?
“Who is Naomi Osaka?”
It’s not an easy question.
I don’t know how much each
of us thinks about it,
but probably some, in any case.
What have I been doing in my life?
What do I hope to do?
What do I long for?
What would I like to let go of
and what would I like
to change going forward?
Jesus famous asks his disciples:
“Who do people say that I am?”
Is this a mid-point gut-check
in Jesus’ public movement?
People are saying all kinds of things:
John the Baptist, back from being
recently executed by Herod.
Elijah, who famously never died
but was “taken up” into heaven
in a whirlwind, like he was from Kansas. (2 Kings 2)
And maybe Jesus was
one of the prophets.
When Jesus asks the disciples directly
“Who do you say that I am?”
Peter bravely answers “You are the messiah.”
Jesus does not confirm or deny,
but doesn’t want this name spread around.
Why is Jesus so cagey
about the word “messiah?”
Some say it was because Jesus
didn’t want any more trouble
than he already had.
Some say it was all about timing:
Jesus was not going to say “messiah”
until after the resurrection.
But even then, he really doesn’t much.
There is some talk about Messiah,
but nowhere does Jesus go around saying
“I am the messiah so you better give me some respect.”
Jesus had to work out how he would
show up in the world. He clearly chose
humility, peace, healing,
anger over injustice.
Tennis great Naomi Osaka,
very young, 22 going on 23,
has a losing streak.
Her coach says that she
forgot who she was.
He noted that as long as she stays calm,
focuses on her breathing; keeping her clarity”
she’ll be fine.
When you are a champion like Osaka,
you want to win. You are driven to win.
Winning is what she wants to do.
Anything less is a big letdown for her.
Yes, she can be a cultural icon,
a fashion model,
the first Asian global tennis champion,
but she wants to win.
And yet, she can’t allow that
to create a storm in her heart.
Anxiety, and a willfulness about winning,
including temper and despair, will not do it.
She has to find her calm.
She has to understand her clarity.
Let’s consider that word “clarity.”
“Clarity” is a big word in emotional systems studies.
It is often opposed to “certainty.”
Certainty is when I’m sure I’m right
and I need to be right, and don’t get in my way.
Clarity is having the strength of vision
to understand where I want to go
and why that matters.
Certainty quickly becomes anxious.
Clarity makes you calm.
Certainty makes you want to fight to be right.
Clarity gives you the calm
of a generous pathway forward.
Now, once again, Naomi Osaka
remembers who she is,
part-way through a critical match….
She is really hacking the balls
into the net. Soon, it’s her
last chance to gain a win.
The announcer notes ominously,
“You can’t say it’s over, but it’s pretty dire.”
But then she “enters the world” with her clarity.
And she volleys a series of resounding
serves and returns, the balls popping
off her racket.
And there she wins again.
It is amazing to get clarity
about how you want to show up in the world.
It’s not easy. And it may come and go.
But wow, when it shows up,
it’s like wind under the wings.
Osaka for Black Lives Matter
Osaka is also a cultural leader,
the first Asian & black global tennis champion.
In 2020, she shows up for the Cincinnati Open
in the wake of the killing of George Floyd.
She refuses to play until they delay
the match for a day.
One person notes that she’s the only
player that’s ever shut down tennis for a day.
She subsequently shows up at matches
with a different mask each time,
with the names of seven people
killed by the police.
She notes that its unfortunate that
seven masks is not nearly enough:
Breonna Taylor, Elijah McClain,
Ahmaud Arbery, Trayvon Martin,
George Floyd, Philando Castile,
Tamir Rice.
Here’s a link that describes the situation
of each one killed.
https://edition.cnn.com/2020/09/11/tennis/naomi-osaka-us-open-face-mask-spt-intl/index.html
She was named one of the
Sports Illustrated sportspersons of the year
in 2020, for her participation
in the protests.
I think that when Jesus asks
the disciples “who do people say that I am?”
he is also asking them
who they are. This is implied
in his direct question:
“Who do you say that I am?”
The question that surrounds
that wonderful question is
“Who are you?” “Who are you
in all this?” “How are you
going to respond?”
“How are you going to show up?”
“How are you going to enter the world?”
And as the poet David Whyte so
brilliantly says, it’s not a matter of
the several steps down the road.
It’s the next step. It’s the next
step that is there for you to take.
Naomi Osaka had to remember
who she is, how she is
going to enter the world,
both to play, and to lead
as a young multi-ethnic woman
in a world full of opportunity and pain.
When Jesus asks
“Who do you say that I am?”
he is asking, what’s the next
step you’re going to take?